Thought I shall just write another post lest i forget what i want to write…
Pretty sure all of us have heard that the only constant thing around us is change…meaning everything changes. Nothing stays the same.
And it’s the same with people. People do change. Relationships do change.
There have been countless occasions whereby I hoped against all odds that my friendships with people over the years can continue to be the way as before. But it all evolves and changes. What worked before cant work today. People grow and their mindsets and attitudes change. Therefore, the way we approach things can no longer be the same.
One thing I hate about growing up is that we know we can never go back to the past, where perhaps, things were simpler, we were more innocent, transparent and open. And in the growing up process, the world has caused us to cocoon ourselves, or perhaps caused us to become less trusting with one another and perhaps more defensive against one another.
There are at least 3 people now with whom I hope that we can actually live out our friendship as in the past….but unfortunately, I know it wun happen. And when that thought comes in, I just sigh and ponder at what could have been and what would have been….
talking about bubbles of imagination that just burst